How to care for the elderly without interruption

Taking care of the elderly is inherently not easy, which becomes even more difficult when children are far away from elderly parents. So how can we take care of the elderly without interruption even though they are alone?

Anyone who is taking care of a friend, relative or elderly parent remotely can be considered a remote healthcare provider.
Remote carers take on different roles such as:
Financial help, money management or paying bills. Hire professional or home medical caregivers and help them get the durable medical equipment they need. Locate care in an assisted living facility or nursing home (also known as a skilled nursing facility). Provide emotional support and occasional respite care to primary caregivers who undertake most of the day-to-day caregiving responsibilities. Serves as an information coordinator, including researching health issues or drugs. Keep family and friends updated and informed about loved ones. Make a plan and get the paperwork done in case of an emergency. Assess the home and make sure it is safe for the needs of the elderly alone or with other seniors. Over time, as your family member's needs change, so will your role as a remote caregiver.

First steps for remote caregivers include:
Talk to your carer friends to see if they have suggestions on how to help. Learn more about local supports that may be helpful. Promote a good understanding of the health problems of the elderly in need of care and other needs. Many of us don't naturally have many of the skills to be remote caregivers. Information about training opportunities on this job abound. Some local branches of the Red Cross may offer courses as well as non-profit organizations focused on aged care.

Find out as much as you can about your family member's condition and any treatments. This can help you understand what's going on, predict the course of illness, prevent crises, and aid in healthcare management. It can also make it easier for you to talk to your doctor.
Get written permission, if necessary in accordance with the Privacy Policy, to receive medical and financial information. To the extent possible, family members are allowed to speak to all health care providers. Try putting together a paper or online notebook that includes all the important information about medical care, social services, contact numbers, financial matters, and more. Make copies for other caregivers and keep them up to date.
Make the most of visits with elderly parents or loved ones. Talk to the care recipient ahead of time and find out what they want to do during your visit. Also ask your primary carer, if appropriate, what they need, such as handling some caregiving responsibilities while you are away. This can help you set clear and realistic goals for your visit. Decide on priorities and leave other tasks for another visit.
Remember to actually spend time visiting with your family member. Try to make time to do things that aren't related to childcare, such as watching movies, playing games, or driving. Finding time to do something simple and relaxing can help everyone, it can be fun and builds family memories. Try to let outside distractions interfere with your visit.

Try to find people who live close to your loved one and can provide a realistic view of what's going on. This could be your other parent. A social worker can provide updates and make decisions. Many families schedule conference calls with their doctor, facility support team, or nursing home staff so that several loved ones can chat and get the same health and wellness updates. Progress. Don't underestimate the value of phone and email contact lists. It's a simple way to keep people updated on your parents' needs. You may also want to give the person you care for a cell phone and make sure that person knows how to use it. Or, if your family member lives in a nursing home, consider installing a separate phone line in their room. Programming the phone numbers of doctors, friends, family members, and yourself into your phone can provide a list of speed dial numbers to keep in your phone. Such simple strategies can be a lifesaver. Learn about professional aged care managers and how they can support you and your family as a remote caregiver. In short, we don't have many skills to be remote caregivers. Information about training opportunities on this job abound. Some local branches of the Red Cross may offer courses as well as non-profit organizations focused on aged care.

References: nia.nih.gov, webmd.com, aarp.org